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what do you guys think about dating people that attend to your church?
 
Posts: 98 | Location: San Diego, Ca | Registered: Mon November 15 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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hmmm not sure about that because i've never dated anyone before, but i would say that if you're really comfortable around this person, and if you know that it's okay to date this person, then maybe it's alright. but i think it's better not to rush into things. i guess i'm just saying that because i still feel like i'm not ready to date yet.
 
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Hmm...looking back at personal experience - it hasn't been a very nice ride dating people who attend my church. But then again depends on how the relationship is really. Just don't do anything that you'll regret in the future and I'm sure that even if the relationship doesn't develop further, both parties can still be friends. Yeah...that's a little from my part! Wink


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I don't think you should date. Well one thing our pastors tell us in our church is that we shouldn't date until the Lord has confirmed that, that person is going to be your future husband or wife. I totaly agree with them; first of all is you want to stay pure for your husband or wife, cause if you do date you might be hugging or holding hands with someone that the Lord has set appart for someone else. Or maybe you might just have a crush and those feelings will go away. One question we have to ask ourselves is are we realy going to love this person until you're old and prunny when they die. And if you do date you dont want to get hurt. Plus when we "like" someone we start thinking like the world and our flesh will take over and the word says that we should have no hints of sexual immorality in our thoughts toward a person. I am not saying you shouldn't date but if you do make shure you are going to spend the rest of your life with them. I pray that the Lord will lead you in the right way. Sorry if I may sound harsh but God set the way we should do things.
 
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I don't see a problem with it....I say, as long as you are both on the same page and neither one of you will hinder the other's relationship with the Lord in any way, then it should be alright....just remember to keep each other in prayer at all times. It's so healthy and so uplifting. I always say, "those who pray together, stay together." LOL, I know, cheese factor = 10, but in a way, it's true....AND REMEMBER TO COMMUNICATE. One thing you should keep in mind is that the person you are interested in should love the Lord more than he'll love you. But pray about it to the Lord first, before you approach that person. He'll give you the response that's appropriate. Good luck and God bless! Wink


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Posts: 130 | Location: Southern Cal | Registered: Thu November 11 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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I think that you should let God guide you, I mean he knows who he has for you, and when the time is right he will bring that person along, God will show you the was sister, jsut let him guide you.

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Posts: 15 | Registered: Sat November 13 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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I think it is okay and cool if you date some one from your church!!! I date someone from my church. Only if you don't do bad things with the person you can date them. Thats what my pastor says. Iam Alpostic!!! Smile Smile
 
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