alright...now about 85 percent of you looked at this saying oh my!! what is that crazy boy thinkin???and the rest(im not to great at math) said oh i need to help him out...we tend to look at a subject and think oh ...well... that one says "jesus is my whole entire life and he should be yours to"...not that thats a bad topic its just ... well..he should be our whole life we sould be giving him our whole attention yes but like we also need to be furthuring his kingdom...anyways back to the main subject...so we tend to be attracted to the...well...dirty stuff we tend to look at it 'cause of its "key words" in a senese...you know what i mean??? now i might be totally off but thats just what i think

"pain is a weakness coming out of your body... but christ will never leave no matter how painful it gets"

THE NEXT BIG THING>>>B-rendaN

i think i get what you're saying.... i'm a sophomore in hiskl and if i just say something like 'sex' or even 'dating'. they flip out if i have a new bf, and rejoice when we break up. they think since i've done so much dating that its God's way of calling me to a life of singleness. i don't think so. i think its b/c when we dont get enough love @ home, you look for it elsewhere. hey, i'm still a virgin, that says something! but i guess since i've been betrayed time and time again by both my earthly dads, thats its kindof hard to put ALL of my trust in God. i do like 99.9%. and i think it says somewhere in the Bible about all or nuthin, but i have trouble trusting guys. have any advice to help me give it all over to Him?

i dont think you're crazy...you're smart!

okay advice for the first coment...i've given alot of this kind of advice...if you just think like everyone fails ... right???...correct but god never ever will...at all...like david crowder says..."our love is loud" its so true the way we treat someone could afect their future...and i dont think dating is wrong at all... but i do believe that we need to have standards...i think its GREAT your still a Virgin...that definatly shows a TON!! ya'know true love waits...but why wait when you can have the greatest love at all...i still have troubles putting ALL of my trust in god and its not very good 'cuz he says it in black and white never shall i leave you never shall i forsake you...so like a b/f will break up with you but gods always there no matter what and its soooooo amazing...i think at leas...so hopefully that answers your question...you wanna know something???...im in jr. high...no lie i am...hee hee but yeah and for the second coment...thank you it means alot to know im smart!!!

brendaN

i guess where you are in life (agewise) doesnt matter. tho you did strike me as so much older. honestly (not trying to flatter) i thought maybe college. but i mean it shouldnt suprise me. i'm 14. (homeskld) i do have standards,btw. like i don't date non-christians, or substance abusers. well, i did once. but i broke it off as soon as i found out. i guess most of my prob comes from most guys my age are SO immature. so i date older guys. like juniors, seniors. the occasional freshman in college. (not anymore) i know that God never screws up. and the He loves unconditionally. but thats what my dad said to. yet he thows me around. and my biological dad was abusive as well. tried to kill my mom. i had all the childlike faith in them, that they could never screw up, never hurt me. it seems that everytime i trust someone fully, i get hurt.

love_is_loud. wow. I can't believe you're only in jr high. you are amazingly smart. by the way...I love the David Crowder Band. they rock my socks

i know...isnt he smart? or maybe i'm dumb....

I"m dumb but he is still smart.

lol. yeah, i am sorta dumb. but not too much. how many 14 y/o's are in 10th grade? but he (mentally) could be in like 14th grade! (2cd year ofd colleg!)

I'm 14 in 9th grade. he's flippin smart. gosh.

wow at this moment my self esteem is at a extreme high ... thanks guys...or girls...or w/e...lol...wow it seems like you've gone through ALOT of hard times...i couldnt even imagine...im homeschooled too...but wow i still cant get over that you guys thought i ws older than 7th grade...WOW!!!lol so yeah its so hard to trust...no one can fully, entirely, no regrets trust someone...i think its imposible...then again...i am just a lil jr. higher...but yeah i realy think that you seem like a crazy cool person...but like...i am realy sorry for all the times you've gone through...but let me say this...god makes people stronger through all the bad stuff...like my buddies mom is going through alot of crap...she smokes...she drinks and she was raped as a girl and cuz of that she dosent eat cuz she thinks shes fat and ugly...and so hes had to deal with her crap and so now hes like an expert on it and hes helped alot of girls struggling with that stuff...so god has huge plans for you i bet!!!


brendaN

I guessed you were in....11th grade or something like that.

ya me 2 u sound very mature 4 ur age