Um...that's derogatory... I know you probably don't want my advice, & I've kind've vowed not to date until my sophomore year of college, so I'm not the most experienced person when it comes to relationships, but I honestly think that if all the guys you're dating are dumping you, they're jerks...& it's easy to be mad @ them for being jerks, but that also means that you kind of have a thing for jerks, so honestly it's probably best not to be looking for what guys want right now & focus on what you want. No one deserves to be treated badly, & if dating keeps putting you in a position where you're being treated badly you might need to take a break from it.
I'm with scholargurl08. Seriously, I think guys can be jerks. I have a couple of guy friends, and I like 'em and all, but not that much! But, I would focus on your relationship w/ God, not guys, but thats just me. Not to preach to ya' or anything.
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true guys can be jerks....and lets not use that nice term that i changed...us guys...well ok me...look at how much attention i get and how much everyother guys gets....obviously, you dont have to give me all your attention every second..that would acutally be a little freaky....but yeah just if i were to notice thatu liked hanging out with other guys i'd be like ehat u doing/?? that doesnt help does it
Using... that word, is pretty mean, and a lot of girls don't even notice they're being... imodest. I supposed guys just don't like a lot of attention all the time. I know a lot of guys, and I have a couple of guy friends, and if I constantly pay attention to them, they get super nervous. I would take a good look at how you act around guys in general, and figure out ways to inprove. Or consult a guy friend who you can talk to. But, that's just my opinion.
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WELL all i wanna advise to a girl like me well if u like a guy , all u need to do just be yourself ,keep honest, try to hang out with him ... and try to observe guys behavior if he really tell u honestLy ...
coz u know what ive been in love before and i know some of the problems of the gurls if u want to ask just drop me a line
Umm, well maybe you don't need to date yet. Maybe you're still too young. I've had one boyfriend and I found out that I'm too young to date and too immature to date. We were really good friends and now we're enemies.
So, maybe it's a sign from God telling you to wait. You can't just take it all out on the boy calling them jerks. Not all guys are jerks.
I'm a gal, btw.
Jesus loved the outcasts. He loves the ones the world just loves to hate. And as long as there's a heaven, there'll be a failure to excommunicate.
It's all about personality...authentic personality. I think the most beautiful people are those that genuinely love others. It's hard to explain, but it is so obvious in a person if they are like this. I find myself drawn to people like this, regardless of their age or gender. I hope one day I will be one of these people.
I can speak with some authourity (I've been married for just over nine years)...don't hurry too much!
I'm all for biblical courtship. Has anyone else heard of it?
The whole dating thing just seems like it would get boring (to me that is.). You go out with someone,have a bit of fun and then get your heart broken when they dump you.
Whereas with courtship ,you don't begin to court until you're pretty sure you've found the person you want to marry. Before hand you just hang out as friends.
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i've heard of that!! i felt god had layed it on my heart to pray abou the whole daing thing & then my parents actually asked me to pray bout it cuz they had heard (& read bout the barlowgirls commitment) although i've already made a commitment not to date/"go out" atleast until i'm 16 (my parents set that 4 dating but iv'e said i'm not even plannin on "goin out" til i'm 16) so ya i've really been considering that
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I don't know if u girls know this but hold almost all the cards. U have the power to turn us down and stuff.
What did u mean by more friendly girls?
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i've found out from my experience...that guys are never satisfied! (except for most "godly men" who are married) and all they want is someone better...there's always someone prettier and always someone smarter or always someone witha better body...like my bf told me that he met someone prettier than me (litterally) and i dumped him..but he sorta did anyway by what he said. i just believe in courtship now.
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okay, i know some guys r like rude, doesn't mean that all of them r like that...and common we have the power to dump them to... i mean my ex.bf was like totally cool, he like totally understood that i didn't like him like anymore, i mean he liked that i was truthful, now were like two friends that like hang out, it's awsome...but them that's my opion.. you just need to find the right guy... jessie, remember when we tryed 2 prank call ryan?and we got this old lady's cellular devices answering machine... it was queer/funny lol
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